[23:02] your av is a girl right? [23:02] someone said you were a guy [23:02] girl av, yes. [23:02] in RL. but this aint RL! [23:02] heh [23:02] so you're a dude right? [23:02] yes [23:02] saw some pics from the RL thing [23:02] no disrespect ... but WTF is up with that ?? I still don't get it [23:03] what do u mean [23:03] u mean, why would i pick a girl av? [23:03] I mean you have a penis , so why wear and live your online life with a vagina? [23:03] lol [23:03] well in case you didnt notice, THERE is far from reality. whats it matter? [23:04] I'm still adjusting [23:04] i guess i'm just used to playing lots of games where some of the main chars are girls. I dont even think twice about it. [23:04] and re: real life, this is a communications tool , like the phone, everyone behind the connection is a REAL person ala REAL LIFE [23:04] I hate that 'this isn't real life bullshit' [23:05] I'm not real?, I'm not typing? [23:05] depends how you look at it i guess. [23:05] ya, i guess [23:05] I was shocked to see u were a guy [23:05] i think of THERE as more of a role playing game, as opposed to a medium for chatting with real life friends. I already chat with them in IRC or AIM. [23:05] I knew most of the he /shes, Gary, Vicki [23:06] and some of the she /he's like ,.... dang what was her name... [23:06] are you relatively new to online stuff? in general i mean [23:06] it blew away and turned off alot of people in my club when they found out [23:07] Not at all re: online , I've hosted palace chat sites for over 4 years now www.xsia.com [23:07] ic [23:07] ah well [23:07] some people care, some dont. just the way it goes i guess [23:07] hey don't get me wrong pal )) i dont give a shit but whoa, i sure don't get it either hehe [23:08] and it did turn off a few of the top club leaders at buggy pals [23:08] from who? [23:08] me? or someone else [23:08] they had no idea even virt vicki was a guy, i knew that after listening to his vid [23:08] oh [23:08] gotcha. [23:08] vicky mainly [23:08] and u tho [23:09] me, i had no idea about u i was like 'whoa' lol [23:09] lol [23:09] and randra sounds like a chick name [23:09] i don't like it at all frankly [23:09] well, i dont think of my avatar as me in RL. perhaps thats the difference. some people treat their av as a virtual self identical to their RL self.. others treat their avs more like an alternate persona or online character. [23:09] and no i don't cyber or anything like that.. [23:10] it's honesty to me [23:10] we need another planet in there.com ) [23:11] one for what you want and one for what people like myself and others want, a persona of ourselves [23:11] doesnt seem any more dishonest then being a fit male when you are unfit in RL, or being able to fly around on a hoverpack. [23:11] fuck this bs [23:11] whats the diff really [23:11] sex is a basic start up on that ladder [23:11] to represent youself without some warning or flag to me is just a joke [23:12] bb, need to p [23:12] warning against what? how does it affect anything at all in THERE? thats the question. the answer is it doesnt [23:18] so you'er saying that if im looking to speak to a girl and you talk to me it's the same thing? [23:18] if you are treating THERE as a dating service, i guess not. [23:18] sometimes i'm in the mood for male company, sometimes female, you totally misrepresent yourself sorry [23:18] but that isnt its function either. [23:18] no, not at all [23:19] and leader of Buggy Pals, I know something about people and btw, if I were looking for a dating service I'd visit one not play there.com [23:19] well, i guess thats the key difference. representing oneself as RL or virtual. [23:20] i give u this tho, u had balls showing yourself [23:20] i respect that [23:20] it wasnt a big secret. [23:20] most peeps that know me well knew already. [23:21] was to me and 3 of my key people in a 200 + member club [23:21] and 2 other clubs, Vampires and Tyr boarders [23:21] no offense but what does bringing up your big club have to do with any of this heh [23:21] none of us knew [23:21] total shock [23:21] who are those 3 people? [23:21] just that i know people [23:21] i mean... people that i know? or just random peeps [23:22] don't worry about it, visit the club url if you want to know they are listed,sans one [23:22] people I know [23:22] we have a group called the 3 club group, it's Buggy Pals, Fraternal order of Tyr boarders lead by Toadstool and Vampires lead by 7of9.... [23:23] yea i'm not worried about it, obviously. but you keep bringing it up is all. [23:23] i know a few peeps that didnt know were like 'wow' but still dont really care. [23:23] no you asked who, so i'm telling u [23:23] leaders of those clubs [23:23] look them off [23:23] er up [23:23] never even met toadstool, but i've talked to 7of9 before. [23:24] great, have a nice evening randra [23:24] mkay [23:24] u 2